Carlin Ross's blog

Punched in the Face for Dishonoring Trump's Phallus

Wed, 05/04/2016 - 08:31
Submitted by Carlin Ross

A female artist, Illmagore on Instagram, painted this portrait of Trump with a small phallus with the quote, "no matter what's in your pants, you can still be a big dick". 

After posting the image on FB, she was assaulted while driving around LA.  A white guy with a Trump bumper sticker came up to her car, punched her in the face, and yelled "Trump 2016".

Now that Ted Cruz is out of the race I think Trump is pretty much the Republican Presidential candidate.  I can't wait for the debates.  And I'm voting for Hillary.

Margaret Cho Calls BAD The Joan of Arc of Orgasm

Wed, 04/27/2016 - 09:39
Submitted by Carlin Ross

We love Margaret Cho so when Rachel emailed us this link we were super proud. They even featured a snip from ouy weekly youtube video.

Betty is the "Joan of Arc of orgasm". 

Most Beautiful Image of Birth

Mon, 04/25/2016 - 07:42
Submitted by Carlin Ross

I absolutely love this image.  It's rare that we see any pictures of we see how the umbilical cord brings nourishment to the baby in utero. 

It's so powerful.  I posted this on FB and people thought it was me.  No, I found this image on a photographers site and it's all in spanish.  She shoots the entire birth and each is uniquely beautiful.

Pleasure is Our Divinity

Tue, 04/19/2016 - 15:48
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Since I became a mom, Betty and I don't get to spend as much time together. The workshops have become the best way for us to reconnect. Now that Grayson is 13 months he can stay home happily with Daddy and mommy can have breakfast with Aunt B, catch up, and assist her in the circle.

When Betty and I click, we click. This past workshop was our best. It felt like we were dancing across the floor anticipating each other's movements, effortlessly gliding through the steps. We ran our third certification workshop; 7 women from Spain, Austria, the West Coast, Boston and NYC will go on to run their own Bodysex groups.

Your Porn-Use Pattern is Largely Molded by a Corporation

Mon, 04/11/2016 - 07:10
Submitted by Carlin Ross

No one watches porn on dvds one is subscribing to Playboy or the Spice channel. Most of us get our porn from aggregator sites like YouPorn, Redtube and PornHub - not surprisingly these sites are owned by one company MindGeek.

I Love Her 60 Year Old Body

Sat, 03/26/2016 - 14:37
Submitted by Carlin Ross

I'm loving the images from 60-year-old Yazemeenah Rossi's campaign for the new swimwear collaboration between e-commerce site The Dreslyn and lingerie brand Land of Women.

The silver hair is perfection and the softness of her curves and textured skin are so refreshing. She's been a model for decades but feels more secure now than when she was younger:

"When I was younger, I was more insecure but I always wanted to be me. When you are yourself and you don't try to copy, you get power. And you feel that power the more you go on in life."

Motherhood is Shrouded in the Same Myths as Orgasm

Tue, 03/22/2016 - 09:16
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Sometimes it takes "celebrity" to bring credibility and attention to our experience. Alanis Morissette, Hayden Panettiere, Gwyneth Paltrow and several other celebs have come forward sharing their personal struggle with postpartum depression.

As I read through their stories, it struck me that most of them started experiencing depression and extreme body fatigue several months after giving birth. There was a euphoria after giving birth that faded and left them feeling overwhelmed and under water.

Marina Abramovic's Balkan Erotic Epic

Wed, 03/16/2016 - 08:33
Submitted by Carlin Ross

I finally stumbled upon Marina Abramovic's Balkan Erotic Epic and had to post it here.  What's amazing is that youtube has no issue with full frontal female nudity (at least not when it's been deemed "art").  We've had clips censored for using the word "masturbation" in the title with no nudity but at least someone is representing for female sexuality.

Whenever we trace back our traditions, it's interesting how most acknowledge the strength and power of the female sex organ.  I love this video:

I Can't Wait for the Xena Reboot

Tue, 03/15/2016 - 07:48
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Xena was the best sapphic erotica/bad ass women show on television EVER.  It was everything I wanted from Charlie's Angels as a girl but had to wait for until the 90's. 

I loved that show and the constant sexual tension between the female protagonists. They're doing a reboot of the original and, according to the showrunner hired to shape the pilot, Xena and Danielle will have a full-on lesbian relationship (fuck yeah):

..."a very different show for very different reasons" - I think we finally may get fully developed, fully sexual female characters.  I want to see lots of sensual kissing, clit rubbing, and slow penetration between slayings and ninja kicks. This could be a game changer.

I Find Myself Still Basking in the Unconditional Love of My Bodysex Sisters

Wed, 03/09/2016 - 16:17
Submitted by Carlin Ross

This email from one of the women in Natasha's workshop made my week. Bodysex is going global as we speak...

Dear Betty and Carlin,

I cannot thank you enough for making the decision to share your talents and messages of self-love with a larger audience through your Bodysex certification courses. Last weekend, I traveled to Saskatoon, Canada to attend Natasha Salaash’s Bodysex workshop and my experience (one that you know well) can only be described as transformational.

Bodysex in Boulder May 14/15

Mon, 03/07/2016 - 07:37
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Julia is one of the first women certified to run their own workshops. She's holding her second workshop in Boulder, Colorado this upcoming May 14/15. If you want to take a workshop, and can't fly to nyc click this link to get all the info and register for Julia's group.

Here is some feedback from her last workshop - so proud to have her representing our work:

After the Bodysex workshop in August, some of the women sent me their stories in writing, sharing what Bodysex had done for them. The names are changed for their privacy, unless they gave me permission otherwise. I feel incredibly blessed and honored every time I read these. The work of Bodysex is powerful and it does the magic.

#5WomenArtists - A Hashtag to Acknowledge Women in the Arts

Tue, 03/01/2016 - 13:19
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Today the National Museum of Women in the Arts launched their social media campaign and their hastag #5womenartists to acknowledge women's contributions to the arts.

This is one of my favorite "Betty" drawings.  When she was in art school, students would sit at the bar and debate whether women could be artists.  They would challenge Betty to name one famous female artist, missing the point that our history in the arts has been buried or denied all together.  The fact that most people can't all name 5 women artists off the top of our heads is straight up misogyny.  Women have always created.

And off the top of my head I can name:
Betty Dodson
Mary Cassatt
Tamara Lempicka
Georgia O'Keeffe
Judy Friday

Sexualizing the Natural

Wed, 02/24/2016 - 12:14
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Thank you, Scout Willis, for posting this pic of your underarm hair on Instagram, thank you for sexualizing the natural.

Demi and Bruce raised a wonderful young woman who's confident and unashamed. Now that I'm a mom I get how much pride you can have in your kid. She posted topless pics to support #freethenipple and is establishing herself as a thoughtful provocateuse.

I smell a feminist.

Why Would You "Thin Down" a Fighter's Arms?

Fri, 02/19/2016 - 10:04
Submitted by Carlin Ross

Ronda Rousey is a fucking physical specimen, UFC Champion and up and coming sports brand. This image of her on The Tonight Show was posted with thinned down arms.

She claims that she didnt know that "they" thinned her down and I believe her. She's a fighter and she spends too much time in the gym not to show off the results. Her brand is about strength and brawn. And she wore a sleeveless outfit for a reason.

It goes to show you that they just can't help themselves, they just have to idealize the female form at every turn. I wonder if they ever "bulk up" pictures of male celebrities on the tonight show.

How Can a Clit Compete with Orgasmic Mushrooms?

Wed, 02/17/2016 - 08:47
Submitted by Carlin Ross

I had to wait two days to find out if, when sniffed, a Hawaiian mushroom induces spontaneous orgasms in women. Grayson is cutting five teeth all at once and he was miserable yesterday. I quickly bookmarked the article Expedition Ecstasy and waited until this morning when he was watching Muppet videos with Daddy.

And I read every word. It's quite a long piece because it's written by a female scientist. I guess when you spend several months doing research, fly to Hawaii, and go searching for a mushroom growing next to lava that only comes out 4 hours/day you want the build up.