sex positive

Raising Happy, Grounded Self-Sexual Sons

Wed, 02/07/2018 - 10:51
Submitted by Carlin Ross

One of the most contentious posts on the site is a question sent to Betty by a pregnant mom, "How Do I Feminize My Son". Users went crazy because it seemed that this mom-to-be wanted to minimize her future son's masculinity. I think she chose an unfortunate title for her question. Now that I'm raising a boy I better understand what she really meant.

I Feel Isolated Because I Don't See Black Sex Positive Feminists

Wed, 10/08/2014 - 07:33
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr.Betty,

First off I want to say I love your website and you've been such an inspiration to me. I also want to apologize in advance for this long letter.

I am a 16 year old black girl and I have been masturbating since I was 10. Since then I've have been giving myself numerous orgasms. I know what exactly turns me on and what doesn't and I consider myself 100% a sex positive feminist. But there is something I've been struggling with. I feel very isolated because I don't see black sex positive feminists. I love masturbating, sex, erotica, cock, my cunt, sex scenes and of course my own imagination and fantasy and feminism. I wish black women had the same type of freedom to say those things without being called a ho or jezebel.